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Monday, March 31, 2008

THE CAUSE OF BAD TEMPER TODDLER


"Mooomm, I want to watch Cartoon now...., and I don't want to eat!, I wanna my milk right now..!".
As a parent, you often face this kind of situation, and sometimes parents often shout them back. Toddler usually adapt their behavior 60% from their parents and their surrounding is the rest. The surrounding include TV, Friends , and might from their nanny. At their fragile age toddler can absorb most from anywhere and anything, and their attitude could bring through adult.

These are another cause of bad temper toddler :

1. Limited social-emotional capability

Toddler curious about their attitude, and they learn by trial and error; such as eat, walk, communicate, etc. If they act (screaming, mean, crying) and the result are satisfying to them, they will exactly act the same in order to have the same effect. Instead The parents should help them to grow mature with their ability in positive manner.

2. Egocentric

All for me, all is mine, and I am the only one can do it. No wonder if their wish are not compromised, they would become mean. "NOW or NO" these two words are so powerful to use.

3. Doing anything forbidden

The more parents forbid them, the more he/she will do the opposite things. Toddler are curious what will their parents reaction. Guess as we scold or angry, their attitude become more mean. Their communication capability grow as their maturity. So beware what you say.

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